Brighten someone’s day with a visit

Visiting people who are living with dementia can be a great source of comfort and support for them and their caregivers. But often, people aren’t sure what to say or do. Here are a few tips to prepare you for your visit:

• Arrange a convenient time — choose a time that is best for the person you’re visiting. Shorten your visit if the person shows signs of fatigue.
• Introduce yourself. If the person seems confused, identify yourself and why you are there. For example, “It’s Jane. I came to visit you today.”
• Come prepared with a few potential topics of conversation, such as pleasant and/or humorous experiences you both shared.
• Pace the conversation — allow time for them to process what you’re saying and respond.
• Establish connection through a common interest. Focus on the person's talents and abilities.
• The person you are visiting may repeat themselves often during your visit. Be patient and respond each time.
• If the person is less verbal, communicate through expression, touch and tone. Remember, your presence is still felt by the person. Smile, hold their hand, speak in a friendly, positive manner.

For more information, visit alzheimer.ca/MeaningfulVisits.